Just do it

I had the great privilege of working for several years for Chick-fil-A Inc .   It was a wonderful opportunity for many reasons, not the least of which are the lessons I learned from founder Truett Cathy and then President Jimmy Collins.  Today's tip comes from a couple of those such lessons.

I recall hearing Jimmy often say - "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail." By watching his example, I learned to always have a plan.  When circumstances change, that plan can be adjusted but it always helps for a plan to be in place.  I am not suggesting rigidity nor am I naïve enough to think that simply having a plan can always prevent disaster.  But, not having a plan, well, that's a recipe for failure.  Apply this to everything from finances to social schedule to housekeeping.  A plan.

The other lesson comes from Truett.  I heard him speak to many different groups and his message often included these three points:
The formula for success is simple -
1.  You gotta have the "want to"
2.  You gotta get the "know how"
3.  Then, you just gotta "do it".

Over this past month, I have shared with you my coping mechanisms to survive my natural bent towards being unorganized.  If you suffer from a similar ailment, then I encourage you to take a tip or two and develop it into a habit.  Make a plan.  Learn how to do something that you aren't succeeding at right now.  Maybe it's meal planning or being on time or taking care of laundry.  You hold the key to the "want to".  There's plenty of "know how" out there if you want it.

Now just "do it".

Good luck!  I'm cheering for you !

God's trying to teach me something - or not

So many times I have heard "God's trying to teach me something."  So many times I have said it.

I have realized it's wrong.  Here's why:

First of all, God doesn't need to "try" anything.  He "does" stuff, He doesn't "try" it. 

But that's not my main problem with the phrase.  It's really an issue with the concept that God is "teaching us a lesson".  Think about how else we use that phrase  - "I decided to teach him a lesson" or "I taught her a lesson she'll never forget".  Not a positive tone.

  When we use that phrase, most likely we are going through a difficulty and we try and explain it by "God's trying to teach me something".  The assumption is that we are somehow deficient and God is getting us up to par by sending us through pain and suffering.  Maybe we don't intend to portray Him that way, but this phrase makes Him sound like a stern schoolmaster, leaning up against the wall, paddle in hand, watching a subordinate struggle. 

God's not like that.

At all.

When His children are hurting - in small ways or in big ones - He isn't distant or passive. He isn't waiting on us to figure out the lesson so that He can move us on.  He's in the thing with us, holding us - not teaching us some lesson but rather revealing His love and grace and power and truth to us.

Yes, He often allows - even orchestrates - circumstances for His children that we probably wouldn't have chosen for ourselves.  But He's not "trying to teach us a lesson".  He's offering us...Himself.

Nest time we're struggling or enduring pain or in the midst of a problem, let's abandon the idea that this adversity is "God teaching us a lesson".  Instead, let's remember that He wants this to be an opportunity for us to see Him for who He is, full of grace and truth, extending mercy and love and power to help us in our need.

15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin. 16 Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need. Hebrews 4:15,16

Pick up lines

Nope, I am definitely not organized but I've developed enough habits that help me survive.  Without too much collateral damage in the process.

Today's Tip:

Pick up after yourself.  Yep, that's it.  Simple, yes, but amazing at how much this habit keeps clutter and chaos and incapacitation at bay.  I like breaking tasks down into manageable steps instead of attacking a mountain all at once. 

When I come in the door - purse goes on the coat hook, shoes in the basket by the door.  And kids do the same.
When I am cooking, I put things away as soon as I use them.
I urge (ok - insist??) that things be returned to their proper room after use.  School books, games (although of course I allow the world's longest running game of Risk to remain at the dining room table until world domination is achieved, even if that takes several days!)
Meal clean up happens as soon as we finish.  And since I cleaned up as I cooked, the eating phase clean up is easier.

Decluttering is nullified if we don't maintain the environment.  Simply picking up after ourselves - cleaning as we go - is easier than letting it build up. 

Even if your kids say otherwise!

Declutter. Repeatedly

The buzz word is "declutter".  Fancy for "get rid of stuff". 

Although I think I have done this successfully, somehow "stuff" multiplies and/or my house possesses a magnetic field that attracts clutter in the dead of night.  I need to consistently go through drawers and cabinets and toss "stuff". 

Having less stuff to keep track of makes organization easier.  And "decluttering" doesn't have to be a daunting task.  I like to tackle 15 minutes worth at a time.  Just 15 minutes can clean out a linen closet or several drawers.  A quarter of an hour every day for a week will result in an entire room spiffed up.

Today's suggestion - start somewhere easy, like the laundry room (or laundry closet, like I had for most years of my married life!) or hall closet.  Attack it for 15 minutes.  Toss the trash, donate the surplus, and straighten up the rest. The payoff of an organized corner of your house far exceeds the investment of some 15 minute blocks!!

Dinner in a hurry


Sometimes I need dinner in a hurry.  Nothing in the freezer.  No time to run to the grocery store.  And it's not Tuesday night.  So I keep ingredients for a couple of quick and easy dinners that have saved my hide once!  I credit my friends Cindi and Dianna with the ideas for these two.  I get by with a little help from my friends!

Baked Ravioli

                                           
1 jar (26 to 28 ounces) tomato pasta sauce (any variety)                                           
                                                                        
1 package (25 to 27 1/2 ounces) frozen cheese-filled ravioli                        
                                                                        
2 cups shredded mozzarella cheese (8 ounces)
   2 tablespoons grated Parmesan cheese                        

    Cover with aluminum foil and bake 40 minutes. Remove foil; bake uncovered 15 to 20 minutes longer or until bubbly and hot in center. Let stand 10 minutes before cutting.

 
 
Shrimp and grits
 
 
 2 1/2 cups water
1 tsp salt
1 cup uncooked grits
2 cups chicken broth
Bring water to boil.  Whisk in grits and salt.  Reduce heat.  Add chicken broth and simmer for 10-15 minutes or as directed on grits package.
Add 1-2 tsp garlic salt or minced garlic
8 oz cream cheese
4 TBS butter
1 cup milk or half&half
 
Stir until cream cheese dissolves.
Add I package (thawed ) cooked shrimp, tails removed (I buy already cooked frozen peeled shrimp)
Serve with toppings:
cooked, crumbled bacon
shredded cheddar cheese
sautéed onions
mushrooms
 
  

All of the above ingredients are easy to keep stocked in your kitchen and make a quick dinner not only easy but yummy.
 
My tip for today - not only stock your pantry but stock up on good friends like Cindi and Dianna that share great ideas. :)