Looking for an expert

All is not well in my blog-world.  I've been limping along in cyberspace, posting and publishing, but my blog skills are, well, Neanderthal.  So there have been problems with delivery and post views and stuff I don't even know about.  I have tried (some) to figure it out but don't even understand the jargon enough to know what my questions are -- I'd rather just write :)

SOOO if any of you readers are blog-savvy and feel "led" to offer me some help, I'd much appreciate it.  I have lots of questions and will promise to give you a good laugh by revealing my ineptitude.

Seriously, if anyone is willing to help me with this stuff, I'd be much obliged.  Just consider it your spiritual gift :)